Parents Learn About Raising Resilient Children

We all know people who, despite difficult circumstances, have become happy and successful. How is it that some people can rely on inner resources in the face of adversity? Based on findings from his book, Raising Resilient Children, Dr. Brooks, a clinical psychologist on the faculty of Harvard Medical School, discussed how to help children and adolescents deal more effectively with stress and pressure, addressing such topics as:

• The importance of empathy in understanding and responding to children.
• The link between self-worth and resilience.
• Why some youngsters have a more difficult time developing a positive self-image than others.
• The importance of identifying and reinforcing each child’s “island of competence.”
• Specific strategies to foster self-discipine, self-esteem, compassion, responsibility, hope and resilience in our children.

From Anne's Desk

On Sunday, April 8, 2007 many of us had the delightful experience of hearing Dr. Robert Brooks, a clinical psychologist and faculty member of Harvard Medical School. The focus of his presentation was “Raising Resilient Children,” being an empathetic parent, understanding we can change how we interact with our children and being less negative and ultimately more loving and supportive. Dr. Brooks was superb and very well received by the overflowing crowd of congregants who filled the sanctuary during Sessions I and II. In like response, Dr. Brooks was impressed with the parents of Temple Jeremiah – warm, receptive and large in numbers.

My thanks go to Jani Harris, chair of our Education Committee, who gave her hands-on support with this endeavor, and to Abby Lasky and Jody Hyman for their help Sunday morning. Thank you also goes to our Sisterhood, Brotherhood and clergy for their help subsidizing this wonderful event.

I encourage all our parents to go to Dr. Brooks’ website, www.drrobertbrooks.com, and read his many published articles on temperament, self-esteem, empathy and discipline (from the word disciple – a teacher). Call any of our local bookstores and order a copy of his book, Raising Resilient Children. You will be so glad you did! Thank you again to each and every one of you for coming to temple and showing your support. Your response encourages us to do more programs in this area.

- Anne Lidsky, Ph.D., RJE

- Reprinted from the May, 2007 Covenant